Secret Treasures – Self Worth
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Parents relating to each other and to the children

Children relating to the parents

  1. Married to each other

  1. Father loving mother

  1. Mother respecting father

  1. Actively present in modeling and teaching children 

  1. Disciplining the children without harshness

  1. Living righteously
  1. Honoring the parents

  1. Obeying 

  1. Caring for them

  1. Not cursing 

  1. Blessing

  1. listening

My birth mother

Her name

Her birth date

Location

Her nationality

My birth father

His name

His birth date

Location

His nationality

Was your birth mother present in your home?

Yes ____  No ___

If your mother was not your primary caregiver, who was________________________________

What atmosphere did your mother/primary caregiver bring? ________________________

Five words that describe your mother/primary caregiver

  • _________________________________

  • _________________________________

  • _________________________________

  • _________________________________

  • _________________________________

What are three things you learned from her?

Mark + if positive or – if negative

  1. ________________________________

  1. _________________________________

  1. _________________________________

How did she discipline you?

Was it without harshness?

______________________________________

 ______________________________________

______________________________________

How does/did your mother show love to you?

  •  Words of affirmation

  • Acts of service

  • Giving gifts

  • Quality time

  • Meaningful touch

Other insights about your birth mother . . .

Was your birth father present in your home?

Yes ____ No ____

If your father was not your primary caregiver, who was___________________

What atmosphere did your father/ father figure bring? _________________________

Five words that describe your father/ father figure

  • ______________________________

  • ______________________________

  • ______________________________

  • _____________________________

  • _____________________________

What are three things you learned from him?

Mark + if positive or – if negative

  1. ________________________________

  1. ________________________________

  1. _______________________________

How did he discipline you?

Was it reasonably?

________________________________

________________________________

________________________________

How does/did your father show love to you?

  • Words of affirmation

  • Acts of service

  • Giving gifts

  • Quality time

  • Meaningful touch

Other insight about your birth father . . .

 

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